Songs on the radio will have you believing that pain is an inherent part of sex. But media isn't always an accurate representation of real life sexualit...

February 16, 2020

The truth of the matter is, a lot of women, Black women in particular, were not taught how to ask for sex. We asked a few how they do it. See what they said...

Sexologist Shamyra Howard discusses what we need to unlearn about our sexuality and why Black women have such a hard time surrendering to pleasure.

September 28, 2019

I was eleven when I got my first period, and I cried uncontrollably. I had no idea why my vagina was coated with and dripping blood. Did I do something wron...

For the past week, I've seen the various ways women sacrifice their own pleasure during sex in favor of a man's. Hence death to self-sacrificial sex...

Beatrice Feliu-Espada said the first feminine wash product came from an ingredient list an ancestor gave her in a dream. She turned it into a business.

We asked several Black women how long it took for their sexual desire to return after they gave birth...if it ever left. See what they said.

Did your parents keep it real, say it was evil and ugly or dodge the topic all together? Either way, we want to know what you were taught about porn growing...

A self-identified prude describes her first experience in a swinger's club.

December 9, 2017

Hey Girl,

There’s really no need for the pleasantries because we know each other so well but this is how letters start so here we go...

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